总之,“见贤思齐,见不贤而内自省”,从而达到不断的自我修正和完善。
在生活和工作当中,看人、对人,要见人之长,容人之短。“己所不欲,勿施于人”,希望别人宽容自己,自己就应该宽容别人,不情愿别人苛求自己,也就不应该苛求别人。学会将心比心,待人如待己。
在日常生活中,我们怎样才能做到严以律己,宽以待人呢?同学之间朝夕相处,学习生活在一起,交往中难免会产生一些误会和矛盾,当这种情况发生时,首先应该多反省自己,严于律己,多想想自己的不足,主动承担责任。同时还应宽以待人,多站在对方的角度想一想,换位思考,做到相视一笑,礼让三分。
只要我们每一个人都做到严于律己,宽以待人,我们的生活就会增添一份诗意,我们的成长才会更多一份从容。
Secondly, being lenient to others. Do not expect perfection from others, perfection does not exist in an imperfect world. You should allow people to make their own mistakes and their own decisions. We should realize that mistakes will keep us moving on and help us to become a better one. So don’t comment on the shortcomings of others. Don’t promote the shortcomings of others. Be tolerant to others.
In a word, When you see worthy ones, strive to equal them. If not, self-examine yourself if you have the same behaviors.
However, in life, it is common for people to be more lenient in self-discipline and treat others strictly. They expect perfection for others, get angry when people make mistakes. In the world, different things have their own strengths and weaknesses. For example, plum blossom is not as white as snow, but the plum blossom is more sweet. What’s more, there is no pure gold and no one is perfect. Why should we have prejudices to others?
In life and work, we should see the strengths of others, and tolerate others’ shortcomings. “Don’t do to others what you don’t want to do”. If you want others to tolerate yourself, you should tolerate others. If you don’t want others to demand yourself, you should not demand others. Feeling for others, and treating others as you would like to be treated.
Thank you!
演讲者:高一(1)班 周怡伶、郑钊杰
升旗手:高一(1)班 柯晨远、苏博礼